Amaechi’s wife visits the First Lady over her mother’s death (PICTURED)

In public, their husbands are menacing, especially towards each other. She has been consistently named as playing a key part in destabilising Rivers, but during the weekend, Rivers first lady, Dame Judith Amaechi and Nigeria’s first lady, Dame Patience Jonathan – let the politics slide as Mrs Amaechi comforted Mrs Jonathan over the death of her mother.